Chapter 1 ~ Key facts to understand before you begin

To find true love is the greatest, most wonderful experience in life.

Follow the steps explained here and you will succeed.

However, it is crucial to understand and be aware of these three dangers:

1. Dating is a minefield filled with danger and frustration.
2. More than half of all marriages fail.
3. There is no such thing as "falling in love".

To succeed in true love, there are certain crucial steps that you need to take.

Keep focused on this:   If it is your destiny to be joined to someone in true love, then a very special person with whom you will be ideally compatible is "out there" somewhere right now ... at this very moment ... just waiting for both of you to be ready to find each other?

And what must one do to "be ready?"   Start by getting your arms around this: True love will never come to you until you understand three "secret" keys:

#1. You need to have a clear sense of mission and purpose in life.

#2. It is more fulfilling to give than receive.

If you seek and embark upon a relationship with expectations of what you will receive, you are setting yourself up for disappointment. Any expectations that you try to impose upon someone else typically reflects self-centered self-interest, and that is the exact opposite of true love.

The only way to achieve a successful and satisfying relationship is to embark upon that relationship without imposing expectations, but with a genuine desire to love and serve your mate, without expecting anything in return. Only then can you be sure of being fulfilled.

Those who seek mainly to satisfy their own desires always lose. Those who are willing to give themselves to serve others win.

#3. Do not take foolish chances.

Instead, learn how to be thoughtfully pro-active. This book will show you how.



I wish that somebody had given me a copy of the book True Love Never Fails, or explained the lessons that this book teaches before I had to learn these lessons in the school of hard knocks.

Or, if not before I began the journey, I wish someone would have been able to explain all this to me much, much earlier in my life ... perhaps after the first time my heart got broken ... or after the second time ... or after the third time.

Maybe, just maybe, at some point along the way, if these pearls of wisdom had come my way, perhaps I could have avoided a whole lot of pain and heartache. I think that surely I would have had enough common sense to listen and pay attention and heed these lessons ... if I had only known ...

Why is it that so many of us have to learn for ourselves by trial and error the exact same lessons that others have already learned? And why do so many keep repeating the same mistakes over and over?

Well, it doesn't have to be that way. It is possible to learn from others' mistakes.

That is the goal of this book ... to explain how you can avoid the terrible, painful, needless tragedy of getting your heart broken and possibly getting your whole life royally messed up.

So, here is the conclusion of this book, right up front: here is the "secret" to finding True Love that Never Fails in three simple steps:

#1. Know all the right questions to ask.
#2. Be sure that you do, in fact, ask all of those questions.
#3. And make certain that you get complete, trustworthy answers.

        ... and do not foolishly ignore any red flags that pop up.

One more thing. The way to make sure that the answers you get are trustworthy answers is to thoroughly check references.

In the book True Love Never Fails, you will find 200 crucially important questions to ask plus some valuable tips on how to check references. Here is the bottom line:

If you want to find True Love that will Never Fail,
do not take foolish chances,
know all the right questions to ask,
and do not settle for less than God's best for you.
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